A couple of weeks ago I picked up two puppies someone had dropped off on the side of the road. My wife and I live in a rural area which means people can drop off unwanted pets with a low risk of being spotted. The puppies were living in a hollow log on the side […]
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An older gentlemen and his wife who live close to me were robbed last friday. They were out of town for a couple on a trip that lasted thursday through saturday.
Sometime while they were gone the front door was kicked in, the whole gun safe was stolen, and the thieves tried to steal a truck. But while in the process of moving the truck to load stuff in it, the thieves got the truck stuck in the yard.
It seems like people are no longer safe regardless of where they go. I figure that living in a rural area crime would be non-existent, but it is still here.
Thieves are like democrats. You work hard all your whole life, accumulate property, then someone kicks in your door and takes it from you. It it is not the democrats then it is the child support office, the irs or some other agency trying to take what you have worked hard for.
What do people have to do to live in peace and quiet?
Judge Lisa Millard sentenced Clifford Hall 6 months in in jail for a crime he did not commit.
It seems that his child support payments were modified without his knowledge, which violates the due process clause of the U.S. constitution. The Fifth Amendment to the United States Constitution guarantees that the government can not take a persons property or liberty without a chance to present their own evidence in a court of law.
Judge Lisa Millard should be removed from office and prohibited from every holding a public office, or any office that has authority over the people. Judge Lisa Millard along with the Harris county child support office is a perfect example of how dads are being driven into child support induced poverty.
Now that Clifford Hall is in jail how is he supposed to pay his child support?
Today is my birthday, I turned 45 years old. Depending on how you look at it, turning 45 is either not too bad, or it sucks.
Retirement – One thing that bothers me is I am nowhere near being ready for retirement. I partially blame myself, but I also blame every 401k management firm I have used. Since 1994 just about every 401k management firm has lost money, except for the one I am using now. How am I supposed to save for retirement when the people managing my 401k lose 20% of my money every year?
Something I worry about is if social security is going to be around when I retire? I know people who have never worked a day in their life and they are drawing social security disability. I work and pay into the system for some lazy bum to draw benefits?
Working Hard – When I was growing up, kids were told to “grow up, get a job and work hard.” Because we “worked hard” our efforts would be recognized and we would be rewarded. I know now that is a lie. Working hard is a wage slave mentality. No company is going to reward your efforts unless they have to.
Middle age sucks. I can look back over my teenage years, my 20, 30s and now I am halfway through my 40s. In January of 2013 I will turn 45 years old.
Besides going into welding, my other major regret is when I started drinking.
Unlike a lot of people I did not drink in my teenage years. I tried a beer when I was around 15 or 16 years old, and the taste was disagreeable.
When I was around 23 years old I went by a corner store in Bridge City Texas, picked up a couple of bottles of Boone’s Farm wine, then went home to have a drink.
Why did I buy a bottle of Boone’s Farm wine? I do not know. Maybe I was bored and looking for something to do?
What I do know, drinking is one of the worst mistakes I have ever made. Drinking has had a negative affect on my health, its not cheap, and its addictive.
At this point in my life I am probably somewhere about 30 – 40 pounds overweight. Lets say I drink 3 or 4 beers, at 100 – 150 calories each, you are talking an easy 300 – 500 extra calories a day. Then when you start adding mixed drinks, the calories really pile on.
When I started drinking around the time I was 23 years old, that is the same time I started having issues with my weight. I put on weight easier then I did before I started drinking.
I wonder how much money I have spent on beer, wine and whiskey over the past 22 – 23 years. I wish I would have never spent a single penny on booze. That money would have been better spent on my kids, or a vacation for the family.
There are so much better things to spend money on besides alcohol. For the price of a 12 pack, I could buy 2 boxes of American Eagle 223 Remington, or 2 boxes of Tula 7.62×39, and have some change left over.
Every time I buy something to drink, I am taking money away from my family and from my prepping resources. And I am ashamed because of that.
Why don’t I just stop drinking? Because I like it too much.
Lets be honest, I have a problem with drinking. I can go a month without having a drink, but when I do drink, I drink until the last drop is gone.
Admitting that there is the problem is the first step to recovery.
This post is my first step to being alcohol free.
Its a little job stress, a lot of it is related to the nations current economic turn-down.
I supply health insurance to my kids. If something were to happen to my job, not only would my wife and I be without health insurance, but my kids would also not be covered.
Since my youngest child is under 18 years old, I am court ordered to pay child support and provide health insurance. If I could not make my child support payments, the Texas attorney general would want me thrown in jail.
I feel that I am in some kind of work release program. As long as I can hold a job and make child support payments, I am free to go and do as I please. When I can not make payments, then its off to jail with you.
Just for the record, I have never been in jail for child support. But there was a time when I did not have a job for a month or so. When I got behind on my payments, the Texas attorney general fined a motion asking a judge to imprison me.
What kind of justice is that? Get without a job, have no income, and the assholes at the Texas attorney general want to throw me in jail. Is that fair to me or my children?
Guess its time for another random thoughts article.
Romney and the elections
Holy crap, really republicans? Romney is our best ticket to beat obama? I usually vote straight line Libertarian party. But when there is not anyone on the Libertarian ticket I usually vote republician. When I have to vote democrap, I think about bill clinton signing nafta into law, and the untold number of jobs we have lost to Mexico.
Not that the republicans are much better. But if we are going to get someone on the republican ticket, at least let them be pro gun.
Whatever happened to all of the people that were supposed to vote for Ron Paul? Whatever happened to the Ron Paul revolution that was going to change America? I guess everyone forgot about that when it came time to vote.
If so many people were going to vote for Ron Paul, how did romney get the nomination?
My mom visits my blog from time to time, so I want to apologize to her and my dad. My battle is nothing they did wrong as parents. I blame this battle with alcohol on myself for being weak.
Unlike a lot of people, I did not drink in my teenage years. I drank a couple of times, did not like the taste or the effects, so I almost never drank in my teenage years. I hope mom and dad are glad to know that.
If I made it past my teenage years without drinking, why did I start drinking? I think it was out of boredom.
The first time I bought alcohol I was maybe 23 or 24 years old. I went to the Texaco gas station in Bridge City Texas and bought 2 bottles of Boones Farm wine.
My first few drinks of wine upset my stomach something terrible; I should have taken the hint. I honestly wish I would have never taken another drink after that Boones Farm. Some people can drink Boones Farm just fine. But there is something with my stomach that I can not drink any kind of sweet wine. Wine coolers upset my stomach the same way Boones farm did.
With the US debt deal passed, we have been pushed to the edge of no return. The US taxpayer has been beat down, the chains have been shackled and the saddle is about to be put on us. From there, we will be nothing more then debt slaves. So what caused this? Elected politicians acting like a bunch of teenage girls with their daddies credit card, thats what.
Our elected officials have spent, and spent, and spent, and spent, and spent until we are on the edge of bankruptcy. Instead of sending welfare people to college, they are sent food stamps, public housing, and welfare checks. We have built a nation of people who think they are “entitled” to something they did not work for.
Now that the national debt equals our gross domestic product, the US has been pushed to the edge of no return. We have no hope of ever paying our debt off. Over the next few years I foresee the US raising taxes on the middle class, and “maybe” the lower upper class. While big companies still do not pay their fair share and continue to move to china.
China is no longer a peasant nation, they have built an empire by selling cheap products to the US. As long as the US stays in debt, and china continues to buy that debt, there is no hope of return.
Now for a random video about survivalebooks.
boogie2988 posted a very heartfelt video about growing up poor, and what its like to be poor.
We have two contrasting parts to the story, living poor because we have to, and living poor because we decide to.
I am bad about spending money. If there is something I want I will shop around and wait on sales. Its stuff like food that I spend a lot of extra money on. Hungry? Lets go get something to eat. I may go get a burger or pizza instead of fixing something at home.
Like boogie2988 says, if you can get some money in the bank, it provides a safety net and peace of mind.
I was wanting to read some child support horror stories, so I did a search for “child support induced poverty”. The funny thing is, no exact results came back.
Are non-custodial parents embarrassed to talk about how the child support laws are like a meat grinder? Or how the custodial parent gets a free lawyer in child support court, but the non-custodial parent gets raped in the ass? Or how the state meat grinder attorney general looking for child support drives families into poverty?
Are people embarrassed to talk about these things? If so, maybe its time for a change.
Child support induced poverty is when the non-custodial parent is pushed into poverty through child support payments, and other ordered payments, such as mandated health care and orders to pay 1/2 of the health care bills.
What does the custodial parent have to do? Nothing but sit on their ass and collect payments. The custodial parent is in no way responsible for providing for the child. They are not required to provide health care coverage, not required to get a job,,, they are required to do “nothing”.
The thing with child support laws, the laws are supposed to make parents responsible for the children. When the non-custodial parent is not required to do anything, where is the responsibility in that?
What I am about to tell you is a true story. The names have been changed to protect the guilty.
For tens of thousands of years mankind lived in small nomadic groups. They had land to farm, land to roam, river and streams to fish from, land to hunt on and land to migrate on. Groups traded between each other, and were pretty much self sufficient.
Today, we live in cities that group people together like livestock.
What happens when you put too many chickens in a coop? They start pecking at each other. Let the chickens out in the yard, or free range, and they are fine.
Humans are natural born predators; we fish, we hunt and we eat. Living in cities with our artificial grocery stores suppresses those natural predator feelings.
Like chickens going to a feeder, or hogs going to a feed trough, so people go to the local grocery store or fast food place and get their food.
Easily obtained food breeds laziness and obesity. Why do so many health problems go hand-in-hand with obesity, because being a fatty is not mans natural state. Our bodies are built to be in constant motion, not to sit at a desk for 8 hours a day. Our bodies are designed to cover long distances in the pursuit of food. Our modern culture ensures that food is at the nearest corner store, fast food place or grocery store.
Related Article – Generations of Welfare Leeches
It is not the job of the tax payers to compensate stupid people. Dont know how to prevent your girlfriend from getting knocked up? Maybe you need to make a trip to the free clinic and get your nuts cut.
Got more kids then you can afford, STOP HAVING MORE!!!!!!! Welfare is not your private checkbook.
My wife and I have a friend of the family that is squeezing out her first child. The baby daddy said he was having an asthma attack, so he gets in the car and drives almost an hour to the next hospital. Keep in mind, the mom was in a hospital. Why not walk over to the emergency room instead of driving to the next town? Because the sorry piece of trash baby daddy wanted to get as far away from the mom and the baby as he can get. The piece of trash baby daddy is around 25 years old, working for minimum wage at the local china-mart, does not provide health coverage for the mom or the baby, does not have a car, and does not even have a drivers license. But yet he can knock the mom up?
The mom on the other hand has a good job, has private health insurance, has a car and has a drivers license.
What the hell was she thinking when she had sex with a bum?
Now the mom and the baby are going to have to deal with a dead beat dad for the rest of their lives.
Its called Personal Responsibility
I thought about titling the article, “spoon fed people”, but decided “sheeple” would be a better description. Maybe “spoon fed cattle” would be a good title? Kinda like cattle being led to the slaughter.
Spoon fed sheeple can not think for themselves. These are the people that sit around watching the TV, and never question what they see.
Sheeple go to the poles and vote for the same two political parties year after year and never ask any questions.
Sheeple never speak up when government does something wrong.
Sheeple never protest.
Sheeple never speak up.
Sheeple never question the government.
Sheeple never question their elected officials.
Sheeple stay in debt, debt adds purpose to their lives.
Sheeple live their lives blind to what is going on around them. As long as they are in debt and have a job, everything is fine.
Over the past few months I have gotten in the habit of locking the doors during the day. The doors have always been locked at night. But here lately I have been keeping the doors locked during the middle of the day.
Security is not a serious concern during the day. My wife and I live in a low crime rate area. There is rarely, if ever, a serious crime around here.
The doors are locked to set a boundary line between my wife and I, and the rest of the world.
Boundaries are an important part of life. Even though millions of illegal immigrants do not care about boundaries, that does not mean the rest of us do not give a crap.
We face boundaries everyday. Think about the boundaries we face on a daily basis. There are boundaries on the road, at the job, in relationships, while shopping,,, everything we do is somehow limited by a boundary.