Before we begin, there is a difference in someone who gets down on their luck and needs some help, and someone who is always having some kind of issues.
Being a Burden – We all know someone who is always broke, always has some kind of legal problem, always drunk, always broke, never has a job, always has some kind of drama in their lives,,,,. Every time you talk to the person, they need this or that. Having a party, ask everyone to bring a little something, they bring a small bag of chips, or 1 or 2 soft drinks,,, just enough for that person and whoever is with him or her.
These are the people that are never quit able to improve their financial, drug, alcohol, drama, baby mama, baby daddy,,, issues.
Have you ever seen the movie “Catch me if you can” with Leonardo DiCaprio, Tom Hanks and Christopher Walken? Through the whole movie, Christopher Walken is having some kind of financial issues with the IRS. Its the same story every time Christopher Walken appears in the movie, the IRS is trying to take everything, and he is going to sue the government. Its the same story over, and over, and over,,, through the whole movie.
Surely we all know someone like the character Christopher Walken played, always having some kind of issues or drama in their life.
Why is it that some people can not move past drama or problems? One of the goals in life should be to live stress free. But there seem to be a group of people who thrive on stress, and why is that? Why do some people “have” to have stress in their lives? Does stress give them a rush, or a type of high?
My opinion on people like that, they never mature past 16 or 17 years old. They are stuck in high school and are unable to make progress in life.
Either they never mature, or they thrive off drama. I am sure we all know someone who loves drama.