Baby daddy not helping you with the bills? Maybe you need to get your lazy ass off the couch and get a job.
It is not the job of the tax payers to compensate stupid people. Dont know how to prevent your girlfriend from getting knocked up? Maybe you need to make a trip to the free clinic and get your nuts cut.
Got more kids then you can afford, STOP HAVING MORE!!!!!!! Welfare is not your private checkbook.
My wife and I have a friend of the family that is squeezing out her first child. The baby daddy said he was having an asthma attack, so he gets in the car and drives almost an hour to the next hospital. Keep in mind, the mom was in a hospital. Why not walk over to the emergency room instead of driving to the next town? Because the sorry piece of trash baby daddy wanted to get as far away from the mom and the baby as he can get. The piece of trash baby daddy is around 25 years old, working for minimum wage at the local china-mart, does not provide health coverage for the mom or the baby, does not have a car, and does not even have a drivers license. But yet he can knock the mom up?
The mom on the other hand has a good job, has private health insurance, has a car and has a drivers license.
What the hell was she thinking when she had sex with a bum?
Now the mom and the baby are going to have to deal with a dead beat dad for the rest of their lives.
Its called Personal Responsibility
For the women – Do not get knocked up by a bum.
For the men – If you can not take care of your kids, do not go around getting women pregnant.
To yourself and to the public
It might just my silly idea of how the world is supposed to work, I think people should contribute to society more then the take out.
Lets take a welfare bum that lives in public housing, gets several hundred dollars worth of food stamps and does not work. How much does that person contribute to society? Probably nothing to very little. People that live that lifestyle are nothing more then a drain on society.
When there is more taken out of the bank that goes in, sooner or later you go broke. And that is the direction the U.S. is headed.
Children learn behavior from the environment they are raised in. What happens when welfare bums have kids and do not teach the children the value of work? We end up with generations of welfare parasites.
The United States government is going broke while more and more people stand there with their hands out.
Middle Class Caught In The Middle
Maybe part of the problem is that the middle class has been caught in a catch 22. The manufacturing jobs that supported the middle class have been sent to china and other cheap labor countries. So what are the people supposed to do?
Just as crops whether in the fields without rain, so the middle class withers away without good paying jobs.
I think that people are hard workers. It is in our nature to do a hard days work. I also feel that the majority of people turn to welfare only as a last ditch effort, maybe as a last resort.
So what is the middle class supposed to do? May go back to college and sink our families into debt for student loans? Maybe learn a skill or a trade?
As a parent, you have a responsibility to provide for your family.
As a citizen, you do not have the right to be a willful burden upon the community.
The keyword there is “willful”. There is a difference in being down on your luck and needing a helping hand, and freeloading off the system.
We have a responsibility to ourselves, our family and our community to be responsible for our actions, and the effects those actions have on the community.